I Gave Him $3600 in 2 Months… And He Still Called Me Broke?

 

Sometimes, being a good person can feel like a curse.

One woman went viral after sharing her heartbreaking—and eye-opening—experience of giving over $3,600 to a man she’d only been talking to for two months. In her own words, she was trying to help him because he was down and she genuinely cared. But what did she get in return? Constant ungratefulness, accusations of not doing enough, and requests for even more—like a final $3,500 ask so he could buy 8 pounds of weed. When she said no, he flipped on her.

She writes:

"I honestly hate that i have to do this but I’ll never ever go out my way for nigga ever again. Yes call me dumb but that’s just me as a person I’ll help & look out for anybody cus i’m really a good person n don’t mind helping. Sometimes being a good person will never  get you nowhere i felt like i was da*n near your mom taking care of you. Yes i did it because i really fw dude. I  literally was genuine asf & went out my way to look out for nigga it’s like anything i did he made it seem like i wasn’t doing enough also ungrateful & he would get mad at me because he didn’t have no money but you got 3600 outta me already. You got mad because i wouldn’t give you 3500 So you can buy 8 pounds of w33d but already got $3600 outta me. I been there for him ever since we started talking it’s only been 2 months 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️ & didn’t judged him for being down but you not finna move weird like i did sum wrong when all you did was keep asking for money everyday & get mad at me like i did sum to you. 💯😭 i did  everything you asked & as soon i can’t do sum now you wanna act funny toward me but where yo family ?!? You 36+ yrs old asking 25yr for help everyday. It’s so much shxt a person can do. People will take ya kindness for weakness. It’s all good tho you live & learn some people don’t deserve me at all 😘🏌🏽‍♀️OBLOCK Nggas Embarrassing 🤧😭” 

We’ve all seen stories like this—someone giving from the heart, only to be drained emotionally and financially. But here’s where the conversation opens up:

Was she wrong for giving so much so early? Or was he just a master manipulator who saw a soft heart and took full advantage?

Let’s talk about it. Have you ever been in a situation where your kindness got taken for weakness?

Drop your thoughts in the comments.